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How many of the people who matter can you keep up with at your pace?

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At 5 reach-outs a month, you keep up with 15 of these 50 people at the rhythm you want, and 35 fall behind.
Time needed a week
38 min
People you keep up with at your pace
15
People who fall behind
35
Share you keep up with
30%

What that rhythm takes

Reach-outs needed a month
16.7
Reach-outs needed a week
3.8
Extra reach-outs needed a month
11.7

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ConnectedIn Me — relationship cadence calculator
· 50 people I want to stay in touch with
· At my current pace I keep up with 15 of them
· Keeping up with all of them takes 38 min a week

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Method: reach-outs needed a month = people x contacts a year each, spread over the months of the year. The people you keep up with = your reach-outs over a year, divided by the contacts a year each person needs. It assumes contacts are spread evenly and does not count people who reach out to you.

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