A personal CRM that prompts you
The personal CRM that actually reminds you to call the people who matter.
ConnectedIn Me builds a picture of who you know from your contacts and calendar, then gives you a short daily list of who to get back in touch with and why. It is local-first and private by default.
- A short daily list of who to contact
- Notes captured by voice after a meeting
- Local-first and private by default
How many of the people who matter can you keep up with at your pace?
Put in how many people you want to stay in touch with, how often, and how many you actually reached out to last month. See how many you can keep up with and how many fall behind. Runs in your browser. No account, no card, no call.
What that rhythm takes
- Reach-outs needed a month
- 16.7
- Reach-outs needed a week
- 3.8
- Extra reach-outs needed a month
- 11.7
Take this with you
No email required. It is your result.
ConnectedIn Me — relationship cadence calculator · 50 people I want to stay in touch with · At my current pace I keep up with 15 of them · Keeping up with all of them takes 38 min a week Run it yourself: https://connectedin.me
Method: reach-outs needed a month = people x contacts a year each, spread over the months of the year. The people you keep up with = your reach-outs over a year, divided by the contacts a year each person needs. It assumes contacts are spread evenly and does not count people who reach out to you.
The problem
Most people have relationships they intend to maintain and maintain none of them, because there is no system and building one takes more discipline than anyone has.
Contacts sit in a phone with no context. By the time you need someone, it has been years since you spoke, and reaching out feels transactional and embarrassing.
Who it is for
Founders and investors
People whose careers depend on relationships they are quietly letting decay.
Consultants, salespeople and recruiters
Professionals who want deal and pipeline context alongside the people they know.
Keep up with people, without building a system
A relationship system that needs almost no input, and tells you each day who to reach out to and why.
- Built from what you have
- It ingests contacts, calendar history and email metadata to see who you actually know and when you last spoke.
- A cadence for each person
- The rhythm is set per person from how you have historically interacted, not from a fixed rule.
- Who to contact, and why
- A short list each day of the people to reach out to, and the reason for each.
- Context before you call
- The context of your last conversation, and anything publicly newsworthy about them.
- Voice notes in seconds
- Capture notes by voice after a meeting, in fifteen seconds.
- Private by default
- It is local-first and private by default.
How it works
ConnectedIn Me, from the first step to the result.
- 01
Connect calendar and contacts
Read-only, for the free Relationship Decay Report.
- 02
See who you have drifted from
The fifty relationships that mattered most, ranked by time since you spoke and past strength.
- 03
Follow the daily list
Who to reach out to, and why.
- 04
Capture a voice note
After the meeting, in fifteen seconds.
Pricing
Free forever for up to 100 relationships. Pay for unlimited tracking, daily prompts and voice notes.
UnlimitedRecommended
Every relationship, with daily prompts.
- Unlimited relationships
- Daily prompts
- Voice notes
- Enrichment
Professional
For people managing deals as well as relationships.
- Deal and pipeline context
Prices in USD.
Questions people actually ask
- How much do I have to enter?
- Almost nothing. It builds the picture from your contacts, calendar history and email metadata.
- How does it decide when to remind me?
- It sets a natural cadence for each person based on how you have historically interacted, rather than a fixed rule.
- What is the Relationship Decay Report?
- A free report. Connect a calendar and contacts read-only and see the fifty relationships that mattered most historically, ranked by how long it has been and how strong the relationship once was.
- What does the daily list include?
- Who to reach out to and why, with the context of your last conversation and anything publicly newsworthy about them.
- Is my data private?
- It is local-first and private by default.
- Is there a free plan?
- Yes. It is free forever for up to 100 tracked relationships.
- What do paid plans cost?
- 9 dollars a month for unlimited relationships with daily prompts, voice notes and enrichment, or 15 dollars a month for professionals who need deal and pipeline context alongside relationships.
- Why should I trust the relationship cadence calculator?
- It is arithmetic on the numbers you enter, in your browser, and reads nothing from your phone. The free Relationship Decay Report reads your calendar and contacts read-only and ranks the fifty relationships that mattered most by how long it has been.
How many of the people who matter can you keep up with at your pace?
Put in how many people you want to stay in touch with, how often, and how many you actually reached out to last month. See how many you can keep up with and how many fall behind. Runs in your browser. No account, no card, no call.
Open the free toolIt runs in your browser. ConnectedIn Me never sees your inputs.